What do men really want from women during sex?

Pretty face?

Double D breasts?

Big peach buns?

Tiny waists?

Pornstar blowjobs?

Pink areolas?

Dark areolas?

A performer?

A swallower?

Square toe nails?

Hairless vajeen?

What? What do men want? What is the ultimate thing they look for in their sex partner?

What do men really want from their partner during sex?

In all the years that I’ve hoed it out, I’ve reached a conclusion that the number one thing men want from their partner during sex is a woman who doesn’t have an opinion. Char. Chariz. No… The number one, ultimate thing men want from their partner during sex is a woman who is also wants it. No holds barred.

You may ask, “What does this mean, Nikkifikfik? Does this mean I have to act like a slut like you?”

First of awll, why do you have to be so mean? Second of awll… no, bitch. Not necessarily.

This just means that you have to be a woman who is sex positive—basically someone who has an unapologetically positive attitude toward sex. Now, this doesn’t fucking mean that every time you hear the word “sex” your eyes have to brighten up like you’re seeing a buy 1 take 1 deal or your thighs automatically get into a spread eagle pose once a handsome man brings it up. Mmmkay?

This means:

·      A woman who genuinely understands that sex is a vital part of life and that sex is imperative to a healthy romantic relationship, and even the sexual relationship you have with yourself. You acknowledge that you are a woman and you have sexual satisfaction needs. You don’t have to actively seek it and fuck around, going around the city dyick diving. It just means you understand its gravity and importance. You can be single and understand that sex is crucial to any relationship. This understanding doesn’t have to loud or be put out there. This understanding can be discreet and within yourself.

·      A woman who acknowledges within herself that she loves to have sex. Not necessarily a woman who loves to have sex frequently. Not even a woman who says yes to sex all the time. It just means a woman who acknowledges that she loves to receive and give physical, sexual pleasure when the opportunity presents itself. She loves the sexual exchange. Again… this acknowledgement doesn’t have to be loud. You don’t even have to say it verbally that you love dyick. You don’t even ever have to utter the words “I love a good dyick,” but it has to be an internal acknowledgement. Like you know in yourself that you are not a prude and that you just really simply love a good dyick. You love giving pleasure. You love receiving pleasure. You love orgasms. You love the feeling. You savor the skin-to-skin contact. You love the entirety of it. No ifs. No buts. No persuasion needed. No pretense.

·      A woman who is not offended when the discussion is about sex. In fact, she listens with intent, responds, gives feedback, and asks questions or simply one who observes and listens. Again… you don’t have to be loud about it. This means that when you learn something new about sex, your immediate reaction is, “Oh shit, really? Interesting. I didn’t know that. Tell me more.” And not “Eww! That’s fucking gross, vulgar, and offensive! I don’t wanna hear that!”

·      A sex-positive woman is someone who is responsive during foreplay and sex. “Does this mean I have to be like porn stars who are loud and noisy?” “Does this mean I have to make random noises just like in hentai?” No, flaca. This means being as responsive as you can to the sensations, feelings, and stimulations. You receive them and then give them right back. This is not limited to having sex. This should be every time he sees you and you’re together. Reciprocate the intensity and hunger he feels for you if you’re as much as in love with him as he is in love with you. Does this mean that if he kisses me on the cheek, I also have to kiss him back on the cheek? What I mean is… if he touches you on your face, lean into his hand, embrace his touch, you don’t also have to fucking touch his face is what I fucking mean. Acknowledge the touch. Respond to his touch. Receive the touch consciously. There must be an exchange of energy. He holds your hand, hold it right back, tight. Don’t just let him hold your hand, hold his hand back, for real. Don’t just submit. Don’t just receive. You know what I mean? Because foreplay doesn’t start when you take your clothes off, it starts with how you treated each other a year ago, a month ago, a week ago, two days ago, and this morning. Let him know, through touch, that you also genuinely want him. Men wanna feel like they’re a prize, too. If he’s not the type to like a woman’s physical touch, bitch, get rid of him, just get rid of him, and create a Grindr account coz he’s probably there lurking with a Bio that says, “I don’t pray, but I will kneel down or bend over for you, big dzaddy.”  

-When he kisses you, kiss him right back. Don’t just fucking receive his face and submit, girl, eat him! Kiss with intent! Memorize the shape of his lips with your tongue. Don’t hold back, especially if that man is your husband or your lover. If that man has been good to you, loyal, gives you money, pays for your shit, calls you beautiful, sucks on your little bean every chance he gets, keeps his Facebook formal for business and work purposes, has Instagram but is used for business, does not watch THOT girls with lifeboat tits on reels, treats you like the queen you are, but is also not too obsessed with you that he doesn’t want you to have a life outside of the relationship, and not an asshole. If he’s genuinely a good man, suck his face, bitch. It doesn’t have to be like a ravenous, hungry, vulgar kiss that he suddenly gets a stroke from the lack of oxygen because you’re sucking up all the air in that small amount of space. Do you know what I mean? Kiss with intent. Kiss back like you’re in a dream. Kiss that fucker like his saliva tastes like sugar syrup and not like cavities. Gross.

-You can also respond to his kiss by holding his hair in your hands to pull him closer to you. This tells him that you wanna taste what he ate for lunch. Ew. Gross. Char. This tells him that you’re also into it, you’re enjoying it, and that you are also as excited as he is. You can also dig your hands in his hair and tug on his hair a little bit. Don’t be afraid to let your hands wander. Explore the surface of his body. Men like to be touched too. They also love to be felt and groped. It’s not an effeminate thing to do, it’s an act of affection. Press your body onto his angry, raging erection. Let that fucker know you can’t wait to have his cack inside you and that dyick is yers. And you’ll be the one to use it, not the other way around. When you’re making out, be the first to reach out for his dyick, don’t wait for him to ask you to or don’t wait for him to lead your hand to his dyick, bitch, if you do this, immediately his first thought would be “Oh, shit! She wants me. She wants the D.” I fucking promise you, he will turn into stone because all the blood would rush to his dyick to wake it up. No other boost for a man’s ego than this. Again… you don’t have to verbally say it if you’re not comfortable, just show it in your body language and your face.

-When he’s on your breasts, arch your back, pull his face, look down on his face, put your eyebrows together like you look confused. Watch him feed on your breasts, is what I’m saying. Watch him with intent. You can take it up a notch by transferring his mouth from the left tit to the right. If you’re blessed by the Lord and the favorite of God and you have big breasts pisting yawa ka, shove both nipples into his mouth. Press your breasts together and put both nipples his mouth. I’m fucking telling you, if you can do this, and if you do this, prepared to get pregnant with triplets within the year because that fucker will not let you go. Suffocate him with your titz. Bury his face in there. He’d happily die knowing his autopsy will show “Asphyxiation by mammary glands.” Again. You don’t have to be loud about it, but your actions and behaviors should be.

·      Respond to his actions. I can’t even stress this enough. Re-cip-ro-cate. If he’s feasting on your vaj, you can do many things through body language if you’re not a verbal person. You can hold hands and squeeze it tight every so often to let him know that the pleasure is intense and you love it. You can hold his hair, direct it where you want it to go to let him know where he needs to be and where to stay. You can brush his hair like you’re petting a dog to say, “Good boy.” Chariz. Don’t cover your face. Watch him. They love that shit. When he watches you watching him while he’s tasting you. Zizst… that’s a memory imprinted on his fucking brain that will never go away. While laying down, you can also move your crotch up and down his face, like you’re riding a horse, but gently. Use that fucker like his face is a sybian. They love that shit when you’re using them for pleasure. That’s the beautiful thing about men. They’re not offended when they’re used for sexual purposes. They welcome that shit, so might as well use them.

-When you’re giving him a blowjob. Be responsive. “How the fuck can I be responsive during a blowjob?” You become responsive by showing him that you love to suck his dyick. Just because you’re already sucking his dyick doesn’t mean it doesn’t get better than that. Imagine a scenario when a guy’s eating your vajeen just to get it over with. He eats it with no expression, no intent, no yearning, no hunger, just a face in between your thighs, no sound, completely silent, no eye contact, waiting for it to be over, acting like it’s time consuming and he’s being forced to do it. You’d lose all interest, right? You’d even start questioning yourself if he really loves you or if he even cares about you. That’s also the same as vanilla blowjobs. They’re still blowjobs, there’s no such thing as a bad blowjob, but I fucking promise you that another girl will do it better than you—a girl who wants your man, and trust me she will fucking perform like she’s the star of the blowjob Superbowl. Zow suck his dyick like you’re tryna get that clumped up boba tea balls stuck together at the end of the straw. Respond through your eyes. Show that fuckah. Let him know that you are grateful to be sucking his dyick. Like it’s just the best thing, and you’re not forced to do it. You have to find it in yourself to find pleasure in feeling the skin of his cack in your mouth. Find enjoyment in pleasuring him with your mouth. Find happiness in seeing his face distort with pleasure because not all women would willingly suck a man’s dyick, express happiness while doing it, or even find enjoyment in doing so. Do it because you really want to do it, not because he told you to. 8 times out of 10, men receive forced, laborious, and vanilla blowjobs. Be one of those two remaining summer sluts that would make their husbands be thankful to exist in the same world as they do.

-If you’re in a sex position where he can see your face entirely, be expressive and reactive with your face as much as you can. The more expressive, the better. Really frown with pleasure, bite your lip, open your mouth, smile like you’re in dyick heaven. Men love to see your face when having sex because it’s how they know what feels good and what doesn’t feel good for you. They are motivated by your facial cues. That’s why they love watching porn because they can see the women’s faces as they are being pleasured. Look at Riley Reid. Not the prettiest or the hottest or the sexiest porn star out there but why do you think she’s consistently on the top ten list of men’s favorite porn stars? Why is she also up there alongside Mia Khalifa, Lana Rhoades, Mia Malkova? It’s because of her responsiveness and expressiveness. Men get turned on just by her facial expressions because she shows she’s enjoying every minute of it. You can see her smile and acts like she’s super excited, which adds to her charisma, making it alluring for men.

-During sex, if you’re communicative or verbal enough, you can tell him what feels good and what’s your favorite thing that he does to you. Provide constructive feedback. If you’re not comfortable in being verbal, let them know through body language. If you want him to eat your premium, raw oyster, you can guide his face down and he’d know what to do. If there’s something you don’t like, let it be known as well. Men are dumb most of the time. Okay, just sometimes. Most of the time what they see in porn is what they think should be and what they think should be done. They can’t read women as well as how we can read men because women are naturally more intuitive than men. So, we can read minds, body language, behaviors, emotions far better than men can. Communicate. Provide feedback so that your sex life can evolve and develop into a sex scenario all the gods will be jealous of.

-Even during orgasm, especially during an orgasm, allow the emotions and sensations to overwhelm you. Allow it to take you. Allow your body to submit to an orgasm. Don’t control your spams, don’t control the noise that come out of your mouth. Your orgasm, how you orgasm, the noises you make during an orgasm, your reactions to your orgasm, and your face during an orgasm, are gifts to your man’s ego. Respond by gifting him the most unhinged orgasm you can give. Be a woman who’s not afraid to react to pleasure. There’s nothing with receiving orgasms. Why the fuck would we have clits, G-spots, and erogenous zones if they weren’t meant for pleasure? The clitoris is a fucking doorbell men need to ring for you to open the doorways to life.

Men feed their ego based on how much the woman enjoyed the sex. The more enjoyable the sex is for the woman, the more proud he is as a man. That’s why porn stars are trained to endure pain and fake it just to get the money shot because porn mostly must cater to men. You will never watch a highly viewed porno where the woman is unresponsive and quiet. They are mostly videos where it looks like the women are truly enjoying their 12-inch monster cacks even when we all fucking know that that shit is fucking painful.

After all this, you may be asking, “Why should I cater to what a man wants? It’s not my fucking job to pleasure man! I am not born in this world only to find happiness and pleasure in a man’s dyick! Why would I do what you’re saying I should do only to make a man happy? Why do I have to be the one to put in so much effort! He’s already lucky I’m having sex with him! All this shit for a man? This is just all male centric!”

Shut the fuck up, bitch. Just shut the fuck up. Even Marie Curie, the mother of radioactivity, who has all the fucking right to detest, abhor, and reject men because she, a woman, discovered what multiple men couldn’t, loved dyick so much that she put her reputation and life’s work aside only to be dyicked down by her late husband’s student who was already married with kids. I knooow… juicy, juicy Curie. Just shut the fuck up. You can’t deny the power of the D, babes. Just shut the fuck up and fess up, we can all sometimes be weak for some good dyick. You can be a feminist and love cack at the same time. It’s oh-kay! There shouldn’t be no shame in it. You can build your own company, your own empire, your own brand, your own community, whatever else it is you wanna build, and go home excited to sit on a man’s face at the same time. You can be a powerhouse and be irrevocably and otherworldly in love with a man at the same time. It’s oh-kay! Wanting to worship a good dyick won’t reduce you into the lowest form of species. The more you acknowledge and recognize that sex is crucial, the more you’ll open up your mind and life to many wonderful possibilities and opportunities.  

Zow… what have we learned today from this hoe? When having sex, if you want to give your man the ultimate, sex he will never forget even in the next life, you have to be as unrestricted and shameless when it’s just the two of you, body to body. Stripped off of all judgment, guilt, and insecurities. Your goal when having sex is to create this powerful ball of sexual energy that is exclusive to the two of you. Make it so fucking powerful and magnetic that your presence triggers a physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional reaction for him. Make that sexual ball of energy between the two of you so fucking electric that when you hold hands, it’s suddenly all color. I know it sounds too fucking corny. Trust me I cringed just writing that. But let’s just put all our feminine ego aside and for once… just fucking admit that there’s no better feeling than having sex with the love of your life, locking eyes, looking into the depths of each other’s eyes, reading each other’s souls, gifting each other all versions of pleasure, creating this strong, invisible string of intimacy bond. Have a dyick so fucking good it makes you literally cry. Have you ever had that? If you haven’t, the fuck are you waiting for, bitch? Find that perfect dyick. As much as I hate to admit it, we’re all looking for that one person. That one person that will eat our vajeen even during red days. That’s just fucking gross. It is. Ngl. But he doesn’t have to and you won’t let him, unless you’re a selfish, hedonistic bitch. A man that loves you too much that he’d be willing to drink your uterine blood, in fact, he’d be the one to suggest it. You get me? The point is to find a man that would love you too much that he will pull out your inner sex goddess.

We only have one life, bitch. Stop resisting and hiding from the type of love and fucking that should be for you in this one particular life just because current society tells you that being someone who actively seeks out her soulmate is weak. It’s 2026, it’s okay to admit we want to find our person in this one life we have. Let me repeat that shit. One. Particular. Life.

P.S.

Hoeld own. However!!! If you’re single and hoeing it out, this doesn’t guarantee that fucking the shit out of him or letting him fuck the shit out of you will convince him to wife you up. You can be the sex he’s ever had, but won’t be love of his love, you get me?

You can be a man’s best sexual encounter, and he will limit it to just that, because great sex doesn’t mean he’s your great love, you can have a strong sexual energy with someone, with a weak romantic energy, and you can have a strong romantic energy with someone, but with a weak sexual energy. It happens. It’s not you. It’s also not him. It just simply means you two are not meant to be together. Sometimes, us women get into it too much when we’re rejected, and we tend to think there’s something wrong with us, “Why doesn’t he love me? What’s wrong with me? Is he intimated by my strong personality?” “He doesn’t want a powerful woman?” “Maybe I’m too loud?” “Maybe I need to be prettier.” “Maybe he’s just not man enough!” When really, love just isn’t there for the two of you. You can be a 10 out of 10, but if a man doesn’t love you, no amount of dick sucking will convince him to. What I mean is, if you get rejected or he doesn’t want to commit even though you’ve been having a Sex, Love, and Drugs relationship, it’s not personal, it just means you’re not the one for him, although you might think he’s the one for you, but the fact that he thinks you’re not the one should already tell you he’s also not the one for you. When you meet your person, you’ll know within the first seven days. It won’t take a month or a year. You’ll just know, hoe!

We only have one life, bitch. We’re running out of time as we speak. Zow… tick tock suck his cock. Use his dyick, spend his money, sit on his face, but love him like his testicles taste like popsicles.

Love,

Nikkifikfik